First Wedding Night In Islam
“And Allah, has made for you Mates.” (Surah Al Nahl 16:72)
“And among His signs is this, that He created for you mates from among yourselves that you may dwell in tranquility with them and He has put love and mercy between your hearts: verily in that are signs for those who reflect.” (Surah Al Rum, 30:21)
Concerning the intimate relationship between spouses, Allah has revealed: “Your wives are a tillage to you, so go in to your tillage as you will, and send for your souls; and fear Allah and know that you will meet Him, and give glad tidings to the Believers.” (Al-Baqarah: 223)
When the newly wed couple, come into their bedroom, firstly salam should be made, the groom and the bride are also recommended to pray two Rak`ahs together when they meet on the first day of marriage,
The Prophet (s.a.w.) said: “If one of you when going to his wife said: Bismillahir Rahmanir Rahim (In the name of Allah ), O Allah! Protect us from Shaitan and protect the sustenance (child) you give us from Shaitan, and if Allah then gave them a child, Shaitan would not affect it at all.” (Al-Bukhari).
According to the Islam, there is no indication regarding the sex on first night of marriage, the newly wed couple will decide when to have intercourse but they stay clear of the prohibited practices mentioned below
1. According to the Islamic point, of view during the menstrual period sexual intercourse is not permitted until she has completed the period and has purified herself through ghusl (major ablution involving complete bathing). Allah says, “do not approach women, (while they are menstruating) until they have purified themselves.” (Al-Baqarah: 222).
2. Sexual intercourse must be done only in the vagina.
3. Sexual intercourse is not permissible while one is fasting (Roza) during the month of Ramadan. It is also forbidden while one is in a state of ihram (During Hajj or `Umrah).
Islam guide the couples that they should be gentle towards one another,
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